Insensitive
I think if I had to hate a certain type of person the most, it’d be this kind. Insensitive statements absolutely drive me up the wall and I desperately feel like punching the lights out of anyone who utters these completely nonconstructive phrases.
And it doesn’t even matter whether or not the person who is saying it knows they’re being a jerk, either… I get pissed at unknowing offenders as well.
It’s one of the few situations in which I really just can’t suck it up and “be the bigger person”.