S/he…

… wishes both to be challenged and to live an unfettered lifestyle.

… wants to be unique and individual, while also being part of a homogenous whole.

… wants to be understood, but resents when someone assumes too much familiarity.

… creatures of habit, falling into the ease of routine, while simultaneously desiring something different.

… wants to be ruled by reason, but recognized as also having passion.

… wants to be respected, but often can’t afford that same respect to others.

… wants to be accepted for who they are, but are often unable to accept certain aspects of their own selves.

… wants above else to be happy, but must experience sadness to appreciate it.